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I believe it is all the matter of moral standards in your country. They feel that having kids out of wedlock is a shame or something. And most parents would want to see their children have kids so that they will also be known as grandparents.
In the end, all they want is the best for their kids. As I grow older I'm beginning to see things from their perspective.
I don't have enough money to raise a kid. The world is ugly and violent. I don't want to bring a kid into that. Plus, I'd be scared my kid would have the mental issues I have. I struggled a LOT growing up. I couldn't put my kid through that.
That's a real shame. There's more to life than just popping out babies.
That's a legit reason though, there are times where I just sit back and think if I would even be able to raise my kids the right way when I finally get married and have kids, but I will never know until I try. The fact that you are able to realize and worry about all these things shows that you will do a lot better.
I don't doubt it. But sadly, all I see around the world is death, war, endless fighting, destruction, horrible violence against women, and on and on. I've also personally seen some of the worst in humanity. I'm done. I will take care of my family and my friends. The rest of the world can go to hell. Just my personal opinion.
I'll admit, I have the instinct to procreate, but honestly, I just don't want kids....
Those kind of doubts are natural, especially for people who have not had the experience of parenting before. But they have to start from somewhere, and is it goes, they learn how to be good parents.
