Do you have a favourite among your children?

[deucher]

The solution to such a problem for me would be to have only one child, but this should be considered together with the future partner. In childhood, my parents also said that they loved us equally, but I felt that this was not the case, and I felt how they tried to make sure that I did not feel this way. As with all parents, the very first child is the best and they buy the best for it and also give it the most attention

 

[Tinni]

People have different circumstances that makes them to end to having favourites among their children. I know of a woman that pampers one particular child because it took her so long to find that child after her first child. She prayed and waited for 10 years after. She doesn't joke with that particular child at all.

 

[eLdavis]

My opinion about this particular topic is that, most people have it wrong for loving some children more than others. Let me say this that is very wrong as parents create enemity among the children which is not a good thing at all.

Exactly, if you know you can't love all the children you have equally, there is no need having multiple children, because loving one more over the other can have some emotional or mental effects.